I’ve seen a bit of press on Emotional Freedom Techniques or Meridian Tapping lately.  Apparently, this can  help to lessen physical and emotional pain, can bring prosperity into your life, will help to lessen your fears of public speaking, snakes, heights, will help you lose weight, quit smoking, overcome insomnia etc, etc, etc,  I wonder if this might offer some assistance to those who are grieving?  Here is a you tube video describing the technique.  Visit www.thetappingsolution.com and download their free e-book which talks about the technique in greater detail.  If you give this a try, send me your feedback.